Marriage is a place for great fun and excitement, a place of fun, laughter, joy, and merriment. No matter what you are going through, God wants to stamp out sorrow and sadness from your relationship.

From the very beginning of the day you can plan great fun into your relationship. Have fun as you wake up in the morning. During breakfast consciously add a bit of fun to your routine and as you part for the business of the day, do something special. Whatever you do, enjoy it!

Ask your spouse for things he/she would want that would add some fun and joy to the way you relate to each other. Lavish each other with things that will amuse and make you laugh. Quit being too serious, bothering all the time about things that aren’t going well. Learn to regularly play together and have pleasure, this will arouse a feeling of joy in you.

As you have fun you help each other to kindle a passionate and strong emotion, this feeling will draw you closer. You need to stir up a strong feeling of love, and as you do this you kindle a great passion into action.

An important part of your relationship is the way you feel towards each other, you can regularly feed your feelings with positive things that will in turn refresh and strengthen your relationship.

Cultivate good feelings on the inside of you. Stir them up and use them to build a passionate and loving marriage.

As you learn to forgive past hurts and develop your feeling towards your spouse, you will create an atmosphere that attracts you both and an experience of fun and great excitement.

God wants you to have fun, He enjoys seeing you passionately in love.